In Her Own Words
About her
Vintage soul, modern woman—usually found where there’s music, dancing, and a bit of adventure… bonus
Part project manager, part rock ’n’ roll singer… 100% music lover 🎶
I’m 50, 5'1, blonde, plus-size and full of personality. By day I keep projects on track, by night I’m singing in a 1950s rock ’n’ roll band and living my best vintage life.
Music is a huge part of me—my taste is eclectic, but right now I’m loving 50s R&B, soul, and country (old and new). You’ll usually find me at a festival somewhere across the UK or Europe—whether it’s a 1950s weekender, a country gig, or a muddy field with great music. I just love the atmosphere, live music, and the people.
When I’m not at a festival, I’m off exploring in my microcamper (camper van upgrade is definitely on the horizon), walking by the coast, taking photos, or attempting to improve my Spanish—slowly but enthusiastically.
Style-wise? Depends on the day. Floaty dress and Docs… or full 1950s glamour when the occasion calls for it.
Warm, kind, and I love to laugh. I value honesty, respect, and integrity, and I appreciate the same in others. Genuine connection and good conversation matter to me.
I enjoy a bit of chat on here, but I think you learn far more about someone over a coffee, a walk, or a gig than endless messages.
I’m happy with the life I’ve built, but it would be lovely to meet someone who enjoys music, is open to a bit of adventure, and might join me for a gig, a road trip, or even a dance (no experience required!). Life’s too short not to enjoy it, and it would be nice to have someone to share the good bits with.
About her ideal match
I’m looking for someone genuine, kind, and emotionally aware, someone who enjoys music, is easy-going, and open to a bit of adventure (and doesn’t mind the occasional muddy field if the music’s worth it).
I think the best relationships come from honesty, consistency, and actually showing up for each other, not just in the big moments, but in the everyday ones too.
I’d love to share things like gigs, festivals, road trips in the camper, coastal walks, or even just a good coffee and a proper chat.
For me, mutual respect, clear communication, and being on the same page matter. Life’s too short for mixed signals, I’d rather something real and straightforward.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Tynemouth (NORTH SHIELDS), Tyne & Wear, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
50 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 1" (155cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Above Average | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Public sector | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Cleveland; County Durham; Cumbria; Northumberland; Tyne & Wear; Borders (England; Scotland, United Kingdom) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
45 - 55 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 6" (167cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Secondary; University / College student; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Ambitious; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outgoing; Philosophical; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Hair style: |
Medium; Straight |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses and contacts |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; One piercing; Several tattoos |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Country & Western; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Punk; R&B / Soul; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Movie Channels; Music Channels; Nature/Wildlife; Sci-Fi; Variety shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Cult Classics; Horror; Mystery; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Music; Photography; Reading; Singing; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
American Football; Athletics; Boxing; Camping; Cycling; Dance; Extreme sports; Football (Soccer); Gymnastics; Hiking; Horse Riding; Ice Skating; Martial arts; Motorsport; Pool; Rugby; Running; Skateboarding; Skiing; Snooker; Snowboarding; Swimming; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I have to cook |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s); Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Turn-offs: |
Erotica; Long hair; Skinny dipping |
Work aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Real Country Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |







