In His Own Words
About him
Calm energy, dry humour, and a love for country music and mountain views. I enjoy hikes, good playlists, and the kind of smiles that make everything better.
Just wanting someone I can give my all to, that dance in the rain, snuggle on the sofa kind of love 🤷♂️
About his ideal match
What qualities am I looking for in an ideal match?
A good-hearted woman with a warm nature and an honest soul. Someone who’s affectionate, loyal, and comfortable being herself — whether that’s dressed up for a night out or in boots on a muddy walk. I’m big on kindness, humour (the dry kind works), and real communication. Bonus points if you love music and you’re the type who notices the little things.
What would make our relationship work?
Two people choosing each other on the ordinary days, not just the exciting ones. Being a team, keeping things honest, and sorting things out with a proper chat rather than sulking or guessing. I think the best relationships have steady effort, laughter, and the feeling that you’re safe to be fully yourself.
What activities would I like to share with your partner?
Live music/gigs (especially country), weekends away, scenic drives with a good playlist, walks and hikes, cosy nights in, cooking together, and board-game nights with friends. I’m also up for outdoorsy stuff — paddle boarding, fresh-air days, and the occasional spontaneous adventure.
What would I consider a deal breaker?
Dishonesty, disrespect, or being unkind — especially when things get stressful. Cheating, playing games, or someone who avoids communication completely. Also anything controlling or overly jealous. I’m after something calm, real, and mutually supportive.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Harrogate, Yorkshire - North, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
44 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
6' 1" (185cm) | |
Body type: |
Athletic | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Blue | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Science / Engineering / Research | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district HG3 (Harrogate) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
35 - 44 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
Any | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
Any | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Latino/Hispanic; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
Opportunity |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Faithful; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outspoken; Realistic; Thoughtful; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Hair style: |
Short; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Country & Western; Punk |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fantasy; History; Romance; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Music Channels; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Romance; Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Cooking; Gardening; Music; Photography; Reading; Singing |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Athletics; Camping; Chess; Football (Soccer); Golf; Hiking; Motorsport; Running; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; Gastro Pub; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm in the middle of a divorce |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s); Reptile(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Fish; Rodent(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Body piercing(s); Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
In the mountains |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Backpacking around the globe |
Feelings about using Real Country Dating: |
Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |