In Her Own Words
About her
I know this is the part where I have to "promote" myself, but I find it a bit hard to do.
What I can say is that I love lazy Sunday mornings, walks in nature, cooking, wine, watching movies, road trips, camping, a good book and thunderstorms. And even though all of the above are enjoyed by myself, it would be nice to do that with someone.
Being from South Africa, I love a good braai with friends and watching the rugby.
I'm not a high maintenance person at all and don't do dresses and high heels as I'm tall enough as it is. It's probably also due to the fact that I am overweight and it's been a battle trying to loose it. But at least I'm cuddly.
About her ideal match
Tall....like at least 6ft.
Someone who I can laugh with and just grow old with.
A good heart that will protect mine.
What Her Friends Say
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About her
Country of origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Redbridge (Wanstead), London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
43 | |
Star sign: |
Aquarius | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Ask me later | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
E-cigarette User | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Secondary | |
Occupation: |
Labour / Construction | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Afrikaans | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
38 - 56 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
6' 0" (182cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Average |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An impartial observer |
Personality traits: |
Cautious; Easygoing; Faithful; Generous; Happy; Independent; Loving; Loyal; Quiet; Realistic; Sarcastic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Devotion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite colour: |
Red |
Hair style: |
Medium |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Body art: |
Pierced ears; A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Country & Western; Pop / Top 40; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Romance; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Reality shows; Sport |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance; War |
Interests: |
Cooking; Music; Reading; Shopping |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Rugby |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; French; Gastro Pub; German; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Doing household chores |
Time online: |
Once or twice a week |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I rarely see them |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Flirting; Long hair; Sarcasm; Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
Find new, more meaningful work |
Religious attendance: |
Once a month |
Dream home: |
House in the suburbs |
Politics: |
I have no interest in politics |
Retirement plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using Real Country Dating: |
Nervous; Hopeful |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
